I remember when I first became a parent back in 1998. This overwhelming love for another human being, unlike anything I’d ever felt before.
And also the fears and the burden of the responsibility for this innocent, helpless beautiful little human that would be forever connected to me!
I was searching for answers to good parenting, what my baby really needed and I got exposed to so many different theories and opinions along the way.
I have tried almost all sorts of parenting styles, from discipline and time outs to hardly any rules at all, and I can remember the frustration and stress I felt when I didn’t accomplish what the experts said I would if I used their “method”.
What they all forgot to tell me, was that no child is the same!
And we as parents are different. Heck, I was different depending on what was going on around me and how I felt, and still I was expected to be this perfect parent.
I couldn’t measure up, and eventually I hit rock bottom…
I had to find a solution.
I started studying and testing different theories. Evaluating my own children, but also the children in the kindergarten where I was working.
I talked to experts in different fields. I studied children’s development, psychology, NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programing), neuroplasticity, leadership, communication and parenting styles, and I discovered what was working on ALL CHILDREN.
Through this I was able to raise my three children to become amazing human beings. Full of happiness and love towards themselves and others, and with the ability to live the life they love, while I also remained their mother and also their best friend.
And that is the best feeling in the world.
To look at my children, and know that I did it, that I was able to give them what they needed, and to raise them as individuals with different personalities, gifts and talents!
Now, I’m ready to share this experience with you.